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He Cried and I was smiling

Yes! The day has arrived; The wait is over. The 9 month of patience, wait, sleepless twist and turns are going to be awarded. 👉  The strecher passes and the operation theatre is ready. 👉 You are being egarly waited by all your loving family members. 👉 The count down has begin. 👉 Here you are with a small little cry.  👉 Yes ! You are here in this world to become our whole world. 👉 You were crying and I was smiling. 👉 I was in pain, still I was smiling and you were crying. 👉 The pain of the stitches were unbearable to go through, still I was smiling forgetting everything. 👉 I was unable to walk, yet I was smiling. 👉  I couldn't cough, sneeze, move around; still I was smiling and you were crying. 👉 I was in so much pain, could not move or even use the toilet alone. Yet here I was touching your small little fingers, watching your yawn.I was still smiling. Motherhood is unending love which you give and get abdunce in back. With a hug, a toothless smile or a toothless smile. W

Toddler saying thank you and sorry?

The three magical words? Am I talking about I love you or something else, confused right. No, I am not talking about I love you. What I am writing today about is the three magical words which are 1. Please 2. Sorry 3. Thank you Do we expect someone to say these words when the situation arises, if yes do we ourself say it. If yes that's wonderful to hear and understand why you would expect the same. Now my question, is do we expect our children to say these words. Yes we do always expect them to say sorry or thank you or please, time and when required. So, how do we teach them to say those words. These words are magical because they convey empathy which is the only thing which connects emotions with other person. Children learn from what they hear, you don't have to teach them. There are so many instances I have had my foot in my mouth, I forget my toddler is listening to what I am saying. He picks up all those wrong words first. I wonder and promise myself to be more aware abou

Birth giving and it's feeling

It’s good news! The pregnancy test stated I am pregnant. Two red lines turned my world upside down. Happiness, tears, and scary moments were there. Loads of questions and panic-filled moments too.  I first made a call to my husband, thank god for technology. I told him to come home; I was expecting. He was on cloud nine! He wanted to dance, celebrate, and shout to the world that he was going to be a dad. Months passed by, and my pregnancy progressed after a few complications. I delivered a healthy happy child. They say you won’t understand the feeling of being a mother unless you become one.  It’s true, I had a c-section. The doctors delivered the baby, they were saying congratulations, you have delivered a healthy child. I was in utter shock, I asked them if it was a boy or a girl. They said it was a boy. I immediately kissed him. Though it never matter ed if the baby was a boy or girl. We both only wanted a healthy baby nothing else. Days passed by since the two little feet ent

Closet for your upcoming months

The choices of clothes will slowly and steadily change. Yes! You won't be now fitting in your fit, body touched clothes. There will be a closet makeover, which definitely you going to enjoy in your 9 months. I had a change from XS to Xxl in my 9 months of pregnancy which was something I never expect. So, when you start shopping for your pregnancy clothes , start with some lose once and those which you are comfortable with. Try with some cotton flowing gowns, lose t-shirts , shorts or they might be just p-j's. Wear something which gives you room to sit freely and comfortably. Lose clothes are ideal for pregnancy which makes you relax comfortable. As months pass by try with - Long flowing dresses Button up shirts Jeans which are made for maternal purpose only Jeggings Kaftans Do invest in good big clothes which make you comfortable and you can wear them as a fashion statement to. Now days there are many stores, shop, online shopping which are dedicated to pregnant ladies do visit

How to be prepared for your big day

Ever worried about what to carry in your hospital bag. How to be prepared for someone you waiting to meet for 9 months. I too had gone through all this stuff. I had so my questions, how would I know if it's time will I be prepared or not. Stop worrying I would suggest because you would just know when the right time is and when you are going to get those crams or if it's just a false alarm. The best part leave it to God and time to decide when is the right time. Let doctors decide, what to do and when what not to do. Cues are many if it's time like water breaking, bleeding, or a cram. I had gone through bleeding. The pain is horrible when I tell you to trust me, it's really horrible. You just want to end your pain and get over with it. Check with your hospital or doctor if they provide clothes for the newborn, sanitary pads and any other stuff they provide, if not do carry the below stuff. Hospital bag preparation - •Hospital file/hospital id card/insurance papers It