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Life is full of Questions You just need to find them



Questions Questions and Question.

All you hear is questions. Life is just a puzzle where daily you get is challenges, riddles and questions.

The question starts from the moment you cry in the hospital your first cry. 

The question arises is it a boy or a girl. What is the name have you thought for your child. So the questions start from that moment where that little angel or prince has not even blinked his eyelashes and the list of questions begins.

Which school do you study, what is your name what are your marks? You study well or not.
 Anyhow you reach your high school were again the question arises is how much did you score, what are your career dreams, which field are you choosing.

 You study to complete your graduation again the question arises is did you get a job. Don't worry the next question is in the queue waiting for you to answer. Which company are you working for, what is your CTC?

Once all these questions are answered so you feel yes you have won the world everything is going good and smoothly you happy and enjoying your work and then life goes on, Isn't it right?

Oh Oh! wait don't be too happy here comes one more. Yes, dear, it is not ending here.

 Hi! Beta when are you getting married?
 Yes, this the next question which you face. Once you get married the next question arises is when there will be good news when are you planning. Haha yes, this what you get.

Careers, education everything else is overlooked only thing which is remembered is when are you planning a baby. Yes, the baby is born and those set of questions again start.

See why the title is questions questions always from the moment you are born to the moment you die.
Don't think they going to stop here. Planned a baby, when are you getting retried.

The question is will these questions stop no they won't the society is made for these questions.




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